조던 피터슨 曰

 

If people are not listening to you, Stop talking to them.
사람들이 당신 말을 듣지 않는다면, 말하는 것을 멈추세요

and that is the best piece of advice that I can give you.
이것이 제가 드릴 수 있는 최고의 조언 입니다.

and what happen is that
그럼 무슨 일이 일어나냐면

If you stop talking to people who aren't listening to you and start watching them instead,
말을 듣지 않는 사람들에게 말을 멈추고 그냥 지켜보기 시작하면,

They will tell you what they're up to.
그들 스스로 의도를 드러낼 겁니다.

But so If you have things to say, Say them.
그러니 할 말이 있다면, 말하시면 돼요

But you find people that will listen, Talk to them.
하지만 당신 말을 들어줄 사람들을 찾아서 그들과 이야기하세요.

The ones who aren't listening, Pull back.
말을 듣지 않는 사람들에게는 물러서세요.

Because you're devaluing what you have to say by offering it to an audience that does nothing but reject it.
당신 말을 무시하는 사람에게 계속 말하는 건 당신이 전하고자 하는 말의 가치를 스스로 깎아 내리고 있는 것입니다.

- A Guide To Better Relationships - Jordan B Peterson -